महिलालाई हेर्ने विभेदकारी दृष्टिकोण कायमै, २५८ जना (६३ प्रतिशत) महिला तथा बालिकामाथि हिंसा, श्रीमान् र परिवारका सदस्यहरुबाट नै
;+:yfn] :yfkgfsfn b]lv g} dlxnf clwsf/ ;'lglZrttfsf nflu n}lu+s ;dfgtfsf] cleofg ;+rfng ub}{ cfPsf] 5 . ;dfhdf /x]sf] dlxnf tyf lszf]/LnfO{ x]g]{ lje]bsf/L b[li6sf]0fsf sf/0f g]kfndf ljz]ifu/L dlxnf, lszf]/L tyf aflnsf dfly ljleGg lsl;dsf lx+;fx? x'b} cfPsf 5g\. lkt[;QfTds ;+/rgfsf] cf8df rln/x]sf] xfd|f] ;dfhdf dlxnf lszf]/L tyf aflnsfdfly x'g] lx+;f dWo] 3/]n' lx+;f Ps k|d'v lx+;f xf] . 3/]n' lx+;fsf ljljw?kx? xfdLn] k6s k6s b]Vb} cfPsf] 5f} . dlxnfnfO{ s'6lk6 ug]{, vfgnfpg glbg], 3/af6 aflx/ lg:sg glbg], >Ldfg\n] ha/h:tL of}g ;Dks{ /fVg] - j}jflxs anfTsf/_, kl/jf/sf ;b:ox?n] czlnn ufnL ufnf}r ul/ dfgl;s oftgf lbg], ;DktLaf6 j~rLt ug]{, gful/stf ljjfx btf{ nufotsf s'/fdf c;xof]u ug]{, 5f]/L dfq kfof] eg]/ x]nf ul/ csf]{ ljjfxsf] dfgl;s qf; k}bf ug]{ / Hofg g} dfg]{ h:tf cg]s 36gf leq leq} e';sf] cfuf] h:t} ;lNs/x]sf 5g . otL dWo] lgs} sd 36gf dfq aflx/ cfpg] ub{5g . lx+;fsf 36gfdf s'6lk6 / Hofg] hfg] h:tf 36gf eP dfq tL 36gf aflx/ cfpF5g . t/ cGo sltko lx+;fsf 36gf aflx/ cfpg ;ls/x]sf 5}gg\ . ljz]iful/ lje]bsf/L ;fdflhs ;+/rgfsf sf/0f lt 36gfnfO{ cfkm' dfly ePsf] lx+;fsf] 36gfsf] ?kdf a'em\g g;Sg'jf :jLsf/ ug{ afWo kfl/Psf 5g\. a'em] klg ljljw ;fdflhs sf/0fn] tL 36gf aflx/ cfpg ;Sb}gg . aflx/ cfPsf 36gfdf klg pN6} k|efljtnfO{ g} bf]lif eg]/ yk lx+;f x'g] sfd eO/x]sf] 5 . cf]/]sn] c;f/ dlxgfdf ;+:yfdf clen]lvs/0f u/]sf -@)@_ tyf ljleGg /fli6«o kqklqsfx?af6 k|fKt -%^_ tYofÍsf cfwf/df hDdf @%* j6f n}lËs lje]bdf cfwfl/t lx+;fsf] tYofÍ ;+sng u/]sf] 5 . x/]s dlxgf em} c;f/ dlxgfdf clen]vLs/0f ePsf 36gfnfO{ ljZn]if0f ubf{ ;du| !#( hgf -%$ k|ltzt_ dlxnf tyf aflnsfdfly 3/]n' lx+;f ePsf]tYofÍn] b]vfPsf] 5 . %( hgf -@# k|ltzt _ dfly of}g lx+;f / !! k|ltzt dfly ;fdflhs lx+;f ePsf] kfO{Psf] 5 . 36gfnfO{ x]bf{ ^# k|ltzt lx+;f >Ldfg\/ kl/jf/sf] ;b:ox?af6 ePsf] 5 . ;fy} @) jif{eGbf sd pd]/df ljjfx ug]{ lszf]/Lx¿n] ltg rf}yfO{ -&% k|ltzt_ 3/]n' lx+;f sf] ;fdgf ug{'k/]sf] tYofÍn] b]vfPsf] 5 . of] tYofÍaf6 k|To]s JolQmsf nflu 3/ ;'/lIft x'g'kg]{df 3/leq} dlxnf tyf aflnsf cem a9L c;'/lIft / lx+;fsf] hf]lvddf /x]sf] b]vfpF5 .
s_ dlxnf tyf aflnsfdfly lx;fsf] k|sf/
o;}u/L c;f/ dlxgfdf cf]/]sn] clen]vLs/0f u/]sf] 36gfsf] tYofÍnfO{ ljZn]if0f ubf{ #^ hgf -!$ k|ltzt_ dlxnf tyf afnaflnsf dfly anfTsf/ ePsf]36gf tYofÍsn] b]vfpF5 . h;dWo]cflb eGbf a9L @* hgf gfaflnsfsf] anfTsf/ ePsf] 5 . To:t} ( j6f -# k|ltzt_ of}g b'Jo{jxf/sf] 36gf, !) j6f -$ k|ltzt_ xTofsf] 36gf, / # j6f -! k|ltzt_ dfgj j]rljvg h:tf] h3Go ck/fwsf] 36gf ;+sng ePsf] 5 .
v_ ljjfx ubf{ sf] pd]/ / 3/]n' lx+;fsf] k|sf/ -cfiff9—@)&(_
o; c;f/ Ps dlxgfsf] cjlwdf dfq s'n !@$ ljjflxt dlxnf tyf lszf]l/x? dfly 3/]n' lx+;f ePsf] lyof] . h;dWo] @) jif{eGbf sd pd]/df ljjfx ug]{ dlxnf / lszf]/Lx¿n] ltg rf}yfO{ -&% k|ltzt_ 3/]n' lx+;f sf] ;fdgf ug{'k/]sf] tYof+sn] b]vfPsf] 5 .
s]xL k|ltlgwL d'ns 36gfx?
!= l5d]sLn] b]v] kl5 aFfr]sL /f]sf -gfd kl/jt{g_ !* alif{of /f]sfn] !^ jif{sf] pd]/df lax] u/]sL lyOg . sIff * df k9b} ubf{ !% lbg hlt kmf]gdf s'/f ePsf] s]6fnfO ljZjf; u/]/ pgn] efu]/ lax] u/]sL lyOg\. t/ lax] u/]sf] s]xL ;do kl5 pgsf] >Ldfg\n] bfOhf] gNofPsf] eGb} s'6lk6 ug{ ;'? u/] klg pgL ;x]/ a;]sL lyOg\ . lax]sf] ! jif{ kl5 /f]sfn] 5f]/f hGdfOg\. t/ cfly{s cj:yf sdhf]/ ePsf] sf/0f ;'Ts]/Ldf pgsf] :ofxf/ gk'u]/ z/L/ sdhf]/ x'b} uPsf] lyof] . To;dfly lbglbg}>Ldfg\sf] oftgf / s'6lk6n] pgL sdhf]/ x'b} uPsL lyOg\. k6s k6s ;Demfpbf klg bfOhf] gNofPsf]n] df/L lbG5' eg]/ /f]sf dfly pgsf >Ldfg\n] k6sk6s s'6lk6 ul//xGYof] . Psk6s a]:;/L s'6]/ d/L eg]/ l;:gf]sf] emf8Ldf >Ldfg\n] kmfn]sf] l5d]sLn] b]v]kl5 /f]sfsf] dfOtLdf va/ ul/lbPsf sf/0f pgL afFRg ;kmn ePsL lyO{g\. s'6lk6af6 ;St 3fOt] ePsL pgsf] ?s'ddf pkrf/ x'g g;s]kl5 g]kfnuGh nu]/ dfOtLn] pkrf/ ul/lbPsf lyP . ToxL a]nf Hofg dfg]{ pBf]udf ph'/L u/]kl5 /f]sfsf] >Ldfg\nfO{ k|x/Ln] kqmfp u/]sf] lyof] . 5f]/Lsf] pkrf/ u5{ ls eg]/ k|efljtsf]a'jfn] k|x/Ldf ldnfkq u/]/ >Ldfg\nfO 5'6fO{lbP klg /f]sfsf >Ldfg\n] pkrf/df ;xof]u ;d]t u/]gg\. clxn] pgL dfOtd} al:5g . pgsf] z/L/sf 3fp clxn] klg /fd|f];Fu el/Psf 5}gg\. /f]sfs} sf/0f pgsf af cfdfsf] ;DaGw klg lau|b} uO/x]sf] 5 . 3/ kms]{/ hfg] jftfj/0f 5}g . ptf 5f]/fsf] hGdbtf{ klg gePsf]n] kf]if0f eQf kfpgaf6 klg j~rLt ePsL l5g\ .
@= dlgtf - gfd kl/jt{g_ sf] !% jif{sf] pd]/df lax] ePsf] lyof] . lax] u/]sf] s]xL ;do kl5 >Ldfg\n] s'6lk6 ug{ z'? u/] . >Ldfg\n] x]nf ug{ ;'? u/]kl5 kl/jf/sf cGo ;b:on] klg ufnL a]OhtL / x]nf ug{ yfn] . Tolt dfq geO{ >Ldfg\n] pgnfO{ ha{h:tL of}g ;Dks{ ;d]t /fVg yfn] . dlgtfn] of}g ;Dks{sf] nflu gdfGbf pgnfO{ s'6lk6 u/]/ ePklg of}g ;Dks{ /fVg vf]Hy] . dlgtfsf] dlxgfjf/L ePsf]a]nf ;d]t pgn] of}g;Dks{sf] nflu tof/ x'g' kYof]{ . ;xg} g;Sg] ePkl5 pgn] k|x/L sfof{nodf ph'/L klg ul/g t/ >Ldfg >LdtLsf] s'/f eg]/ ldnfkq u/]/ k7fOof] . @)&& sf] c;f/df klg To:t} 36gf bf]xl/P kl5 dlgtf cf]/]s g]kfnsf] ;Dks{df cfOg\ . cf]/]sn] lhljsf]kfh{g sfo{qmd cGt/ut ? @% xhf/ ;xof]u kfO{ xfn cfkm\g} Joj;fo ;~rfng u/L /x]sL l5g\ .
#= clwsf/sf] nflu Psn dlxnf d]g'sfsf] ;F3if{ d]g'sf -gfd kl/jt{g_ sf] ljjfx !( jif{sf] pd]/df ePsf] lyof] . ljx] u/]sf] s]xL lbg kl5 pgn] >Ldfgsf] klxn] g} ljx] ePsf] s'/f yfxf kfOg . klxnfsf] >LdtL;Fu ;DaGw laR5]b eO;s]sf] ePklg Pp6f 5f]/f 3/d} ePsf] pgn] ljx] kl5 dfq yfxf kfOg . pgsf]>Ldfgsf] ;f;';';/f;Fu a]nfa]nf emu8f eO/xGYof] . To;}n] ;f;' ;;'/f l/;fP/ ef/t uPsf lyP . ToxL a]nf d]g'sfsf] 5f]/f hlGdof] . aRrf hlGdPsf] % dlxgf kl5 pgsf] >Ldfg a'jf cfdfnfO{ 3/ lkmtf{ Nofpg] / k};f klg sdfp5' eg]/ ef/t uP . t/ 3/af6 lx8]sf] t];|f] lbgg} pgsf]d[To' ePsf] va/ cfof] . d[To'sf] va/n] d]g'sf cr]t h:t} ePsL lyOg . Tof] a]nf ;f;' ;;'/fn] nf; a'em]/ ef/td} clGtd ;+:sf/ u/]/ kms]{ . d]g'sfsf] >Ldfgsf] s] eP/ d[To' ePsf] eGg] klg pgnfO{ hfgsf/L lbOPg . s]xL ;do kl5 d]g'sfn] aRrfsf] hGdbtf{sf] nflu gful/stf dfu]kl5 ;;'/fn] pgL dfly b'Jo{jxf/ ug{ ;'? u/] . ;;'/fn] /S;L vfP/ u'KtfË b]vfP/ ckdfg ug]{ clg 3/af6 g} lgsfln lbP kl5 d]g'sfn] j8f sfof{nodf hfx]/L lbPsL lyOg\. hgk|ltlgwLx?n] s'/f ldnfpg g;s]kl5 d]g'sf lhNnf k|x/L sfof{no ;Dd k'lug . k|x/Ldf 5nkmn x'bfF ;;'/fn] a'xf/Lsf] lx:;f hUuf kf; ul/lbG5' eg]/ sfuh agfPsf lyP . t/ To;sf] ltglbg kl5 ;DaGw laR5]b eO;s]sL h]7L a'xf/Lsf] gfddf hUuf lsga]r ul/ kf; ug{ nfu]sf] km]nf k/]kl5 d]g'sfn] ;f] hUuf /f]Ssf u/fPsL l5g . >Ldfg ljt]sf] dlxgf lbg klg glaTb} ;;'/fn] ;DklQaf6 j~rLt ug{ vf]h] kl5 d]g'sf clxn] lhNnf cbfnt ;Dd k'u]sL l5g .
oBkL w]/} lx+;fsf 36gfx? ;fj{hlgs x'g ;s]sf 5}gg\eg] 3/kl/jf/sf JolQmx?af6 ePsf 36gfsf] ph'/L lbg k|efljtx?n] g;s]sf] / tTsfn lx+;f k|efljtsf nflu ;]jf k|bfg ug]{ ;xof]uL ;+oGqx? klg k|efljt d}qL gx'Fbf Gofo kfpg] ljZjf; g} gePsf sf/0f klg 36gfx? Afflx/ gcfPsf] cj:yf 5 .
u_ lx+;f k|efljtsf] pd]/sf] cfwf/df juL{s/0f
c;f/ dlxgfdf @%* hgf dlxnf tyf afnaflnsf dfly lx+;f ePsf] 5 . h;dWo]&& hgf -#) k|ltzt_ !* b]lv @% aif{ pd]/ ;d'xsf 5g\. To;}u/L &! hgf -@* k|ltzt_ @^ b]lv #% aif{, %) hgf -!( k|ltzt_ !* jif{ d'lg, $) hgf -!^ k|ltzt_ #^ b]lv $% aif{, ( hgf -$ k|ltzt_ $^ b]lv %% jif{ ;Dd, & hgf -# k|ltzt_ %^ jif{ eGbf dfly /x]sf 5g\ .
3_ हिंसा प्रभावितको आरोपितसँगको सम्बन्ध
clen]lvt tYofÍsnfO{ ljZn]if0f ubf{ k|fo h:tf] 36gf >Ldfg -$^ k|ltzt _/ -!^ k|ltzt_ kl/jf/sf ;b:oaf6 ePsf] kfOG5 . To;} ul/ @& hgf -!! k|ltzt_ l5d]ls, !& hgf -& k|ltzt k|]dL_, @# hgf -( k|ltzt_ ckl/lrt JolQm, / * hgf -# k|ltzt_ ;d'bfosf ;b:oaf6 lx+;f ePsf] hfgsf/L kfOPsf] 5 . s'g} klg JolQmsf] ;a}eGbf glhssf] ;DaGw >Ldfg÷kl/jf/ ;b:o xf]. oBlk, tYofÍ x]bf{ cfwf eGbf a9L -^# k|ltzt_ lx+;f >Ldfg / kl/jf/sf ;b:ox¿åf/f k|efljtn] ;fdgf ul//x]sf 5g\. 3/nfO{ ;a}eGbf ;'/lIft 7fFp dflgPtf klg tYofÍsn] dlxnfx? 3/d} c;'/lIft /x]sf] k|dfl0ft u/]sf] 5 .
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3/]n' lx+;f lgjf/0f / afnljjfx ;DaGwL P]g tyf sfg"g sfof{Gjog eO;s] klg k|efljtx?n] Gofo kfpg / cfkm' dfly ePsf] 36gf ;fj{hlgs ug{ Jojxf/df w]/} ;d:of b]lvPsf 5g\. dlxnfn] lx+;f ef]Ug' lgotL xf] eg]/ :jLsf/ ug{ afWo kfl/g';a}eGbf 7'nf] ;d:of / r'gf}tL xf] . t;y{ 3/]n' lx+;fsf 36gfnfO{ Go'gLs/0f ug{sf nflu JolQm kl/jf/ tyf ;d'bfo:t/df g} Jofks ?kdf ;r]lts/0fsf sfo{qmdx? ;~rfng ug{ cfjZos 5 . ;fy} sd pd]/df x'g] ljjfxsf xflgsf/s k|efjx¿k|lt ljBfno :t/ b]lv g} afnaflnsfx?n] a'emg' kg]{ cfjZostf b]lvG5 . To;}u/L ;dfhsf ;a} ju{ ljz]if ul/ dlxnfx?n] lx+;f s] xf] < / lx+;fnfO{ ;xg' x'b}g eGg] s'/fnfO{ a'em\g ;a} eGbf h?/L 5 / lx+;fsf 36gfdf k|efljtnfO{ ;+/If0f / Gofosf] nflu kxn ug{ klg ;a} ;/f]sf/jfnfx?n] ;+j]bgzLn eO{ ;dGjo / ;xof]u ug'{ kb{5 . ;a} ldln lx+;f/lxt jftfj/0fsf] lgdf{0f ug'{ ;a}sf] bfloTj xf] .